Back to the Ex?!

I get many inquiries about these problems. Outside most of the people say " NEVER again"... nevertheless, apparently it looks internally completely different. Many people try it again with each other, after a respect end , however, what are the reasons for that? Often you suddenly stand alone before "all" and then suddenly the Ex anyhow in another light. Was everything bad? Did he/she not have, nevertheless, also good sides? Especially delicately it becomes, if the Ex suddenly appears with a new, potential partner, many feel itself appoint to get the Ex back. The behaviour of the Ex often also changes, he/she looks after him/herself again, dresses smartly, starts quite possibly with the training, what was completely forgotten during the relationship. She wears the Mini again and also the HighHeels, she use Makeup again. Promises were made that you will never again fall back in the old state.
However, nevertheless, then it comes quite differently than "firmly" carried out. Slowly, but definitely! if everybody falls again in the old role and you hear the next countdown is ticking again.
The question is, is truth the base? Does you have common interests, does this person fits in character to me, or does he/she search basically for a mummy/a provider? Or were the problems not "home-baked", did they come from Outside?
Not to get into a loop of desperation, grief (because thats, what it is!)and to end in self-abandonment, you should listen to your belly... it will tell you the right thing. Who will not do that, will be sick with the time and the relationship, nevertheless, mostly comes to an end. And besides that, "the stronger is always that one who loves less....