Freitag, 24. Juni 2011
Secrets of Love

The power of thought
Love begins with our thoughts.
We get what we think. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships.
Affirmations can change our beliefs and views about ourselves and others.
If we want to love someone, we must consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner in helping us to recognize him when he crossed our path.
The power of respect
You can only love someone or something, or if it or he/she is respected.
First you need to respect yourselve.
To develop self-respect, you should ask: "What do I like about me?"
To respect other people, even those that are unpleasant one, ask yourself: "What I admire about him or her?"
The Power of Giving
If you want to receive love, then first you have to give it! To love is to give away something of yourself, voluntarily, without any conditions.
Be friendly without intention.
Ask before you tie yourself, not by what you will have of your partner, but rather what he is getting from you.
The secret formula for a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to be always focused on what you can give, instead of taking.
The Power of Friendship
In order to find true love, you must first find a true friend.
Love does not need to look allways into each others eyes, but in the same direction.
To love someone completely you must love him the way he/she is, and not because of his appearance.
Friendship is the soil, thrives on the love.
If you want a relationship filled with love, you must bring in friendship.
The power of Touching
The Touch is one of the strongest proofs of love. Breaking down barriers and connects people.
Touching changes the body and mind and make us susceptible to love.
A touch can heal the body and warm the heart.
If we spread our arms, we open our hearts.
The Power of Letting Go
If you love something/one, let it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours, if not, it was never yours.
Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space.
If we want to learn how to love, we must first learn how to forgive and let go past pain and past hurts.
Love means, our fears, prejudices, egos and our ifs and buts, to let go.
"Today I let go of all my fears. What used to be, no longer has power over me. Today I begin a new life. "
The power of communication
If we learn to be open and honest, our life changes.
To love someone is to communicate with him.
Let the one you love, know that you love her/him and appreciate her/him. Never be afraid to say these three words: ". I love you"
Never let pass an opportunity to praise others.
Say goodbye to people you love, with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them.
The Power of Commitment
If you want to experience love, you have to feel obliged about her, and that commitment will be in your thoughts and deeds of their expression.
The degree of liability is the touchstone of true love. If you want to have loving relationships, you have to feel obligated.
If you feel obliged to someone or something, then giving up is not an option.
The degree of Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a firm.
The Power of Passion
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive.
Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction, but out of deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement.
You can revive the passion again, by recreating past experiences, when you felt passionate.
Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. Love and happiness arise from the same root, we only need to live each day with passion.
The power of trust
Trust is the bedrock of any love relationship. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful, while the other one has the feeling of being trapped, suffocated.
You can not love someone completely unless you trust him/her completely.
Act as if your relationship to the love will never end.
If you want to know if you've found the right one, ask yourself: "Can I trust him completely and unconditionally" If you have to deny it, you should again think carefully about it, before you tie yourself.
Donnerstag, 23. Juni 2011
Crossroads

How many times in your life you have to make a decision; that you are at a crossroad, heart or mind ... the mind is telling you, go this way, it will give you security, then you've everything under control, you can do it, because here you will not be hurten.
Your heart is telling you, no, go the other way, to redeem yourself from your patterns, that you provide true security, because you're used to, because you know them and have learned to deal with them, even if it hurts .... but it'll shows you a new perspective, new feeling, new love, new happiness, on the other side you can grow, learn.
So what to do?!
If I decide not to listen to my heart, I decide against myself ..
In the long run it is my soul, that the unhappiness, the stagnation in my life, will not accept. But how should she tell me ...?.... she will tell it to myself through my body.
Will I get problems with the eyes, then I may not like what I see ..
Or for example women that have problems with the uterus / genitals are suffering from: deep anger, problems with the masculine / feminine aspect, deny / hide the real me (playing a role), the need to dominate/control
Hurts my gall bladder, that has to do with bitterness, anger, and too much pride.
My hip hurts.... then I might be afraid to make a decision, afraid to go forward? Or my knee? I'm stubborn, inflexible, intransigent, I don't wanna move?
That is the way my soul will talk to me, "telling me," that is not good for you, it will make you unhappy, doubtful and ill, there you are at the wrong path. The organ will show me the psychological problems; pain in the throat: I can't say what I want to say, I gulp down too much, I have determined the frequent neck problems, migraine headaches and it shows me a blockade against myself, to high self-criticism, self-doubt and fear ... an inward to be driven.
I think that many people who already have a problem with them selfs, have to take the time to look into a mirror and tell themself with all there heart, that they love themselves. Well, there already it starts. I want others to consider me as "lovable", if I can't even like, respect myself, or even think that I'm nothing ... I also radiate it ... So, look into the mirror and into your own eyes, your own "mirror of the soul", where each person sees in itself, a creature that is not only lovable and beautiful, you will see someone very special. And this is not such an esoteric blather ....
Everything we think, what is not endearing to/about us, is anyway, most of the time a silly chatter of other people or from parents or "friends" ....
So, look at you, feel you and you will realize that you are a beautiful person :-)))
Ludovico Einaudi - "Divenire" - Live @ Royal Albert Hall London
Divenire -- the Emergence, the being
Liberated spirit ....
When, I wonder, when is a spirit ... my spirit, my will free? Do you have to devote your whole life for it, as Buddhist monks and Indian gurus, to reach this goal?
Could I use this "free spirit" then to make my thoughts or even reject specific thoughts, ... not allowing? So, just think what is good for me, makes me happy ...?
Thus I would create myself new? Am I still am I then? Or am I just me? Could I reject all the negative behind me, all that, but also what makes me, joy, sorrow ... Love, pain ... all that, of course influenced me as well, and partly loaded and has blocked me .....
Often you hear today, with our thoughts we make inside ourselves, what is happening outside ...
If you are only life to "see" that ...?
On the other hand ... to reach/have such a "liberated spirit" / you only have to make your own decision to determine emotional, physical and intellectual one-sidedness. But who is so "strong willed" and even if,am I then pure love or pure ego?
Do I not determine all my thoughts in anyway? Conscious and "unconscious"? .........
I am me ..... Free .......
Could I use this "free spirit" then to make my thoughts or even reject specific thoughts, ... not allowing? So, just think what is good for me, makes me happy ...?
Thus I would create myself new? Am I still am I then? Or am I just me? Could I reject all the negative behind me, all that, but also what makes me, joy, sorrow ... Love, pain ... all that, of course influenced me as well, and partly loaded and has blocked me .....
Often you hear today, with our thoughts we make inside ourselves, what is happening outside ...
If you are only life to "see" that ...?
On the other hand ... to reach/have such a "liberated spirit" / you only have to make your own decision to determine emotional, physical and intellectual one-sidedness. But who is so "strong willed" and even if,am I then pure love or pure ego?
Do I not determine all my thoughts in anyway? Conscious and "unconscious"? .........
I am me ..... Free .......
The point? of life .....

or is that not the question ......... or why is there such a question .....
An objective sense of a thing whose existence is by nature, sometimes it's its contents (act) and sometimes also it's its consequence.
The sense of a rock then is, that it is just a rock and if it falls down from the mountain, because it was hitten by a lightning and below it runs over a walker and he will be killed, then the meaning of the falling boulder, is to kill the walker. It's simple.
Accordingly, my life has the meaning, that I am living (existence), the fact that I'm doing something (content, action) and that sometimes some of it follows.
Now I can, as a subject, judge... whether I think it's good or bad (what is there, what happened there and what will follow from that) and if I can find a subjective meaning for me.
Colloquially, it usually means, that someone had "found the meaning of a thing", if they're well maintained and usually something had "no sense" just because it's disliked.
Who therefore has no meaning in his life or the sense studied in some external conditions (eg an assessment of the life, lived by third parties), who has only didn't find a way, for themselve to find a way to lead a profitable, good, that is "(subjective) meaningful" life. He either has no courage to live, so that he doesn't look at this live, because he don't not like it, things its "nothing" and find refuge with the relocation of the assessment of life on others (eg society, common morality, deity) for he things hislife or his perceives of his life is bad or crappy. This is only a matter of his emotions.
Life is not shit.
Life is.
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