Donnerstag, 16. Februar 2012

Fears, insecurities and compensations ...


If you're unconscious, you may be tempted to believe, that you re locked by your fellow man in a so-called golden cage. An image that is liked to be used is the jealous partner, who tries to control you, break out of fear, he/she could leave the relationship. You might think that you can blame your partner for that you feel confined. You can also turn this idea into a partner, who s the "guilt" to your dilemma.
Who believes that?
The ego, which is from a spiritual perspective, the center of your personality. If you are aware, however, observe what thoughts you nurse, then you will realize that they're the ones that trigger these emotions in you. From the perspective of the higher self, everything is in order, exactly the way it is. And amazingly, I think the more attention you give to the fate of contending ideas, the greater your self-builed golden cage.
Insecurety, perfectionism, lack of recognition, fear of failure, searching for "to be loved for its own sake", many people are driven to drugs or to non-material desires, such as the workaholic. What many do not realize is, that too is an addiction. Often with very serious consequences, either physically, psychologically and socially.

To be continued......

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