Fears, insecurities and compensations ...

If you're unconscious, you may be tempted to believe, that you re locked by your fellow man in a so-called golden cage. An image that is liked to be used is the jealous partner, who tries to control you, break out of fear, he/she could leave the relationship. You might think that you can blame your partner for that you feel confined. You can also turn this idea into a partner, who s the "guilt" to your dilemma.
Who believes that?
The ego, which is from a spiritual perspective, the center of your personality. If you are aware, however, observe what thoughts you nurse, then you will realize that they're the ones that trigger these emotions in you. From the perspective of the higher self, everything is in order, exactly the way it is. And amazingly, I think the more attention you give to the fate of contending ideas, the greater your self-builed golden cage.
Insecurety, perfectionism, lack of recognition, fear of failure, searching for "to be loved for its own sake", many people are driven to drugs or to non-material desires, such as the workaholic. What many do not realize is, that too is an addiction. Often with very serious consequences, either physically, psychologically and socially.

To be continued......

Happiness?

It s not your job to make someone else happy. It s your job to make your SELF happy.

We have a lot of VERY unhappy people in this world trying to make others happy..... at the expense of their very own happiness.

Sacrificing the SELF will never work, because it is impossible to give to someone else what you currently do not have.

Are you happy? If you are not ~ what changes are you willing to make in order to claim your birthright of joy, love, happiness and serenity. It is your divine birthright to radiate these attributes, and it is your responsibility to claim them.....for no one else can do it for you.

Are your needs met? If your needs are not met how can you possibly fulfill the needs of others? There must always be a balance in giving and receiving.

Examine your life and your relationships. Be brutally self honest with your self. What changes need to be made? What needs to be released? What needs to be healed? What needs to be discussed? What needs to be brought back into balance?

You have the power and the responsibility to BE HAPPY. Spend time creating that for your self so you can radiate it from your being.