Freitag, 24. Juni 2011
Secrets of Love
The power of thought
Love begins with our thoughts.
We get what we think. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships.
Affirmations can change our beliefs and views about ourselves and others.
If we want to love someone, we must consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner in helping us to recognize him when he crossed our path.
The power of respect
You can only love someone or something, or if it or he/she is respected.
First you need to respect yourselve.
To develop self-respect, you should ask: "What do I like about me?"
To respect other people, even those that are unpleasant one, ask yourself: "What I admire about him or her?"
The Power of Giving
If you want to receive love, then first you have to give it! To love is to give away something of yourself, voluntarily, without any conditions.
Be friendly without intention.
Ask before you tie yourself, not by what you will have of your partner, but rather what he is getting from you.
The secret formula for a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to be always focused on what you can give, instead of taking.
The Power of Friendship
In order to find true love, you must first find a true friend.
Love does not need to look allways into each others eyes, but in the same direction.
To love someone completely you must love him the way he/she is, and not because of his appearance.
Friendship is the soil, thrives on the love.
If you want a relationship filled with love, you must bring in friendship.
The power of Touching
The Touch is one of the strongest proofs of love. Breaking down barriers and connects people.
Touching changes the body and mind and make us susceptible to love.
A touch can heal the body and warm the heart.
If we spread our arms, we open our hearts.
The Power of Letting Go
If you love something/one, let it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours, if not, it was never yours.
Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space.
If we want to learn how to love, we must first learn how to forgive and let go past pain and past hurts.
Love means, our fears, prejudices, egos and our ifs and buts, to let go.
"Today I let go of all my fears. What used to be, no longer has power over me. Today I begin a new life. "
The power of communication
If we learn to be open and honest, our life changes.
To love someone is to communicate with him.
Let the one you love, know that you love her/him and appreciate her/him. Never be afraid to say these three words: ". I love you"
Never let pass an opportunity to praise others.
Say goodbye to people you love, with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them.
The Power of Commitment
If you want to experience love, you have to feel obliged about her, and that commitment will be in your thoughts and deeds of their expression.
The degree of liability is the touchstone of true love. If you want to have loving relationships, you have to feel obligated.
If you feel obliged to someone or something, then giving up is not an option.
The degree of Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a firm.
The Power of Passion
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive.
Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction, but out of deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement.
You can revive the passion again, by recreating past experiences, when you felt passionate.
Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. Love and happiness arise from the same root, we only need to live each day with passion.
The power of trust
Trust is the bedrock of any love relationship. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful, while the other one has the feeling of being trapped, suffocated.
You can not love someone completely unless you trust him/her completely.
Act as if your relationship to the love will never end.
If you want to know if you've found the right one, ask yourself: "Can I trust him completely and unconditionally" If you have to deny it, you should again think carefully about it, before you tie yourself.
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